No separation occurs immediately, from one moment to another, begins with facts that we cannot give them the importance they deserve. It is not something Facebook would like to discuss. We miss things that we must analyse in a sincere and honest manner with our partner. Mark Zuckerberg may find it difficult to be quoted properly. When some who abuse the harmony, which produzca disagreement, causing discomfort in either of the two, it must be resolved by both with affection and respect, immediately. Here comes a fundamental element to preserve a relationship. Any difficulty or inconvenience that is present, has to be resolved immediately. Every problem in the relationship must resolve it and delete it.
It doesn't matter if it is small or innocuous apparently. He does not do so, having indecision, is to sustain the problem. Keep it in reserve, store it in our mind, is to give base to create assumptions that nothing will help to solve it. Imagination for these cases is harmful, we too can deviate from reality. Many choose as a strategy to overcome the differences that have, to let go the word. You can avoid offending verbally, but This can slowly increase resentment and bitterness.
It is important to be able to control what is real and recognize what is just a figment of our imagination. Bringing to light what bothers us, what they do not let us be calm helps us to clarify obscure points. A healthy self-esteem will enable us to be very objective, will help us to find within ourselves the truth, without wanting to impose our view on another, or only pursue our interest within the problem. Most of the problems and discussions presented in the couple, occur not because they have different opinions, but because one of the two tries to impose his point of view over another. Often the woman does not approve what the man thinks, because he does not value his point of view and treats her with affection.
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